A number of North Korean weddings have recently been delayed or canceled for superstitious reasons, Daily NK has learned.
“A rumor is circulating in Chongjin that couples who get married this year will not enjoy domestic harmony. As a result, several couples who had planned their weddings have postponed them until next year,” a source in North Hamgyong Province told Daily NK on Tuesday, speaking on condition of anonymity.
According to the source, the rumors were spread by ethnic Chinese living in Chongjin.
There is a folk belief in China that people should avoid getting married in a “widow’s year,” which is a year when the beginning of spring comes before the Lunar New Year. Since 2024 is a widow’s year, ethnic Chinese apparently say that couples who marry in that year will suffer marital discord.
According to Chinese folk mythology, a year in which Lichun, the solar term corresponding to the beginning of spring, comes before the Lunar New Year is a year without spring, which symbolizes birth and abundance. Such a year, it is believed, is inappropriate for marriage and childbirth.
These Chinese folk beliefs have given rise to unfounded rumors that couples who marry during this year will experience marital discord, strife, and misfortune until they eventually divorce. Such rumors are currently spreading through the North Korean population.
Another wild rumor that seems to be going around is that it is extremely unlucky and possibly fatal for people born in dragon years to marry in the year of the dragon. This is because dragons are powerful but invisible animals.
As a result of these various rumors, the source said, some North Korean couples are canceling weddings scheduled for this year or postponing them until next year, either on their own or because of pressure from parents on both sides of the family.