North Korean authorities have launched an aggressive campaign against unmarried couples living together, declaring such arrangements a symptom of “decadent capitalist culture.” This crackdown highlights the growing tension between traditional state control and changing social attitudes in the country.
In the city of Hyesan, located in the northern Ryanggang province, police have begun forcing cohabiting couples to separate. The government considers unmarried couples living together a “non-socialist practice” that contradicts the state’s prescribed lifestyle, giving police legal authority to intervene.
Despite these restrictions, cohabitation has become increasingly common in North Korea, particularly among young adults in their 20s and 30s. The trend has even spread to middle-aged couples in their 40s and 50s, especially those considering remarriage.
Several factors drive this shift in living arrangements. Many couples want to test their compatibility before marriage or are forced to delay their wedding ceremonies due to financial constraints. North Korea’s strict divorce procedures and the social stigma surrounding divorce also play a role – couples increasingly prefer to live together before marriage rather than risk a complicated divorce later.
“People are more cautious about rushing into marriage because divorce is so difficult,” explained a local source. “There’s also a growing belief that romantic relationships don’t necessarily need to last forever, which challenges traditional attitudes.”
The authorities have responded to these changing social norms with severe measures. Since Dec. 6, Hyesan police, accompanied by neighborhood watch unit leaders, have been conducting door-to-door inspections of suspected unmarried couples. These couples face an ultimatum: register their marriage within 15 days or face consequences. The threatened punishments include public criticism sessions at neighborhood watch units or workplaces, as well as unspecified legal penalties.
The pressure campaign has been intense, with officials visiting targeted households multiple times daily. As a result, many couples without immediate marriage plans have chosen to separate temporarily.
One woman in her twenties, who had been living with her boyfriend, described the situation: “The neighborhood watch unit head and city police visit us several times a day, pressuring us to register our marriage. Given their threats of legal punishment, I’ve decided to move back in with my family until the crackdown subsides.”
December 26, 2024 at 04:49AM
by DailyNK(North Korean Media)